Introduction
Personal lubricant — commonly called lube — can make intimate activity more comfortable by reducing friction. But choosing one isn't simply a matter of picking a brand. Water-based, silicone-based and specialist lubricants have different characteristics and suit different situations.
This guide explains the main types of personal lubricant, their differences and what to consider when choosing one.
Water-Based Lubricant
Water-based lubricant is a versatile option for everyday use. It is generally easy to wash away with water and is available in many different formulations.
Because water gradually evaporates, water-based lubricants may need to be reapplied during longer sessions. Their easy cleanup and versatility nevertheless make them a useful starting point for many people.
Water-based lubricant may suit you if you want:
- Easy cleanup
- A versatile everyday lubricant
- An option suitable for use with many sex toys
Silicone-Based Lubricant
Silicone-based lubricant generally stays slippery for longer because it does not dry out as quickly as water-based formulations.
This makes it useful when longer-lasting lubrication is preferred. However, check the manufacturer's instructions before combining a lubricant with a sex toy, particularly a silicone toy, as compatibility can vary.
Lubricants for Women
Personal lubricants can help reduce friction and increase comfort during vaginal sex or when using intimate toys.
There isn't one lubricant that is automatically best for every woman. Consider the intended activity, personal preference, sensitivity, and whether condoms or sex toys will be used.
Persistent dryness, irritation or discomfort may have an underlying cause, so lubricant should not be treated as a substitute for appropriate medical advice when symptoms persist.
Choosing Lubricant for Anal Sex
The rectum does not naturally provide lubrication, so using sufficient lubricant is particularly important for reducing friction during anal play.
Both water-based and silicone-based lubricants can be suitable depending on the activity and products being used. Consider how long the lubricant lasts, how easily it can be reapplied, and whether it is compatible with your condoms or toys.
Water-Based or Silicone-Based Lubricant?
| Easy to wash away | Longer lasting |
| May require reapplication | Does not dry as quickly |
| Widely available | Useful when longer lubrication is wanted |
| Often suitable for toys* | Check toy compatibility* |
*Always check the instructions for the specific lubricant, condom and sex toy being used.
Which Personal Lubricant Should You Choose?
For many people, water-based lubricant is a practical starting point because of its versatility and easy cleanup.
If longer-lasting lubrication is important, a silicone-based lubricant may be worth considering. For specific activities such as anal play, specialist formulations can provide another option.
Ultimately, the right lubricant depends on what you're using it for, what it will be used with, and your personal preference.